A Fresh Start

I’ve been working behind the scenes getting everything updated and fixed up, clearing out spam, and generally doing “invisible” projects for a while now, all in preparation for today. The one-year anniversary of my last post. Not really something to celebrate, but it seemed like the perfect time to give myself a fresh start. More on that below.

To celebrate the rebirth and renewal of my blog, I decided to create this ikebana with a bold and sculptural protea blossom, surrounded and protected by tiny mums in a very similar colour pallette. Airy nigella greens help contrast the heaviness of the focus flowers and bring balance and light to the whole arrangement. The flowers were purchased at a lovely florist here in Montreal called Les Champs Fleuris while I was out with Sophie. While we were there, a woman came in to browse and she was wearing yukata!

As I outlined in my last post, I had a very eventful end of 2023 leading into 2024. I was over-ambitious and thought I’d be able to pick up where I left off, at the same time as I recovered from a pretty debilitating accident, all while working 40+ hours a week, travelling back and forth across the continent, and planning a very DIY wedding.

I accepted that life had gotten in the way, but convinced myself I’d get back into the swing of things when I got back to Montreal (where all my kimono, ikebana vessels, and other blogging necessities still live) last month only to find out there’d been a minor fire in the house here and my parents hadn’t told me to “not stress me out further.” Don’t worry, everyone is safe and sound and the only damage was to one wall where a thermostat shorted out. My mother thankfully felt the heat emanating out of the wall before calling 911 immediately. But I came home to new walls, an entirely refinished floor due to water damage, and the bulk of our possessions boxed up all over the hallways.

But here’s the good news. The wedding went off a treat, I have been happily married for six months. The house here in Montreal is slowly getting back to normal as we unpack everything. The kimono room is still upside-down and I’m still dealing with a lot of chronic pain in my legs and can’t stand for long periods of time, but I’ve got lots of reviews and little adventures planned out for the near future. I still need to wrangle The Husband into a formal kimono and hakama so we can take some very belated “wedding” pictures. Maybe for our first anniversary next December. Seems fitting since I keep doing things on anniversaries lately.

On that note, if you’re still here I can’t express how much I appreciate your continued encouragement and support. Please select your top three options of content you’d like to see or drop me a line here or on any social media platform if you have any requests or suggestions. I can’t promise anything, but I can sure as heck try! All reviews/diys/etc will obviously be related to kimono or Japanese culture, and of course I will be doing as much actual kimono blogging and coordination as I can in the coming months!

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Road Map for 2023 (and beyond?)

First of all, let me make it clear that the kimono content will always be the primary focus of my blog. Whether it be outfit coordinations, events, or informational posts, this is never going to stop. However, I have realised that in my current situation I can’t keep up with the rate of mannequin coords I have posted in the past.

There are multiple reasons for this. Firstly, I used to work a maximum of twenty hours a week. Then the pandemic hit and I was fully unemployed for over a year. This meant a ton of free time. I now have the luxury of working from home but I work a full forty hours a week, plus occasional overtime, which leaves me much less in the way of free time. My collection has also gotten so overwhelming that sometimes just looking at it while deciding what to coordinate with is exhausting!

Secondly, I am spending months at a time with my boyfriend in California, and hauling significant portions of my collection and a mannequin back and forth is just entirely unreasonable. His house also doesn’t have the space for me to take over a kimono corner, let alone the entire room.

Lastly, and maybe most importantly, I am dealing with the early stages of a frozen shoulder. This makes it difficult for me to even dress myself in yofuku (you should see me trying to do up my bra, it’s hilarious), let alone dress an uncooperative mannequin in wafuku. I am doing physical therapy and getting injections for it, and we’ve managed to slow its progression, but it’s not really getting better yet.

So what does all this mean for you, my beloved readers and followers? It means I’m going to be making a concentrated effort to bring you more content relating to Japanese arts, culture, and lifestyle, still while focusing on kimono, but broadening my scope somewhat. I also hope to bring more accessible products to you, not only imported things. Between shipping times, fluctuating currencies, and carbon imprints, it’s nice for those of us in the Americas and Europe to be able to experience a bit more wa in our lives with more ease. Expect to see more tea reviews, restaurant reviews (I am going to Morimoto Las Vegas next week and I cannot wait to share my experience with you), book reviews, and health & beauty products (Tatcha and Rituals of Sakura coming up soon). These are all things I will be able to do after work, with a bum shoulder, while away from Montreal, or any combination of the above.

I realise some of you did not sign on for this and if you decide this blog is no longer for you I fully understand. But I hope some of you will choose to stick around and see what the future holds for all of us! And to thank you for sticking around until the end of this ramble, here’s some photos of the beautiful Lego Bonsai tree Keith got me for Christmas. I love that you can easily swap between green leaves and beautiful sakura bonsai! I am terrible with real plants so this is a lovely way for me to enjoy bonsai on my desk without worrying about killing it.

(Sakura tokidoki unicorno not included – she just happened to be on my desk and I couldn’t resist)

Hiatus Update

I just wanted to post a quick update. I’m still living in the guest room, still blocking access to my kimono. I’m also just sort of exhausted emotionally, dealing with all this flood stuff. However, my bedroom is in the process of being emptied out and renovations should start on Monday! My birthday is this coming weekend and honestly this progress is just about the best gift I could have received. Hopefully I’ll be back at full energy, with free time and unfettered access to my collection, within a few weeks!

Until then, thank you for your continued patience and support.  😀

Mini-Hiatus

Several days ago, Montreal experienced an unusually heavy rain fall. Unfortunately, when that happened, my room (which is in the basement of a big old house) flooded, leaving everything down there in several inches of standing water.

Thankfully my kimono collection does not reside in my bedroom, or this entry would be a lot harder to write. However, all my free time for the foreseeable future is going to be devoted to flood cleanup, and the room where the kimono are stored is also our guest room which is where I’m currently sleeping. With the sofa-bed unfolded it’s impossible for me to get to my collection.

What this means is that there likely won’t be new entries for a few weeks. I sincerely apologise, and promise I’ll be back in full force as soon as I can! Thank you for understanding.

Short Term Sick Leave

If you’ve read most of my recent posts, you’ll notice there’s been a recurring theme of me complaining about allergies and feeling a bit icky. Turns out I’ve got a nasty sinus infection and bronchitis! Whoops! I’ll be taking a short break but hope to be back to posting regularly soon! Thanks for understanding 🙂